Archive for the ‘Youth’ Category

Rally at City Hall to Tell NYC that Homeless Youth Matter!

Sunday, March 29th, 2009

Homeless Youth
Rally at City Hall to Tell NYC that Homeless Youth Matter!

City Hall Park
Tuesday, March 31st
3:45 PM - 5:30 PM

We’ll meet at the north side of City Hall Park at 3:45 PM.
Make noise!
Bring signs!
Tell the City that the futures of homeless youth matter!

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Last week, the New York City Department of Youth and Community Development slashed funding for homeless youth shelters, in a wave of funding cuts that promise to cripple youth shelters across the city in the coming year.

Thousands of youth will be forced to return to living on the street if we don’t ACT NOW.

Join us in the fight to save the futures of the city’s homeless youth!

Thank you for your support as we fight for the future and dignity of this community.

NYC LGBTQ Youth Shelters Face Threat of Closure Following DYCD Funding Refusal

Friday, March 27th, 2009

The following is an action alert that I received from Sylvia’s Place homeless shelter at which I volunteer. Essentially, they just lost *ALL* of their operating funding for next year. So did most of the other LGBT specific programs in NYC. Please take a moment, read the below, and call one of the city council members mentioned at the bottom.

URGENT:
LGBTQ Youth Shelters Face Threat of Closure Following DYCD Funding Refusal

The New York City Department of Youth and Community Development (DYCD) has slashed funding for LGBTQ runaway and homeless youth programs, in a wave of funding cuts that promise to cripple LGBTQ homeless youth services across the city in the coming year. By refusing funding requests for LGBTQ youth programs at MCCNY Homeless Youth Services: Sylvia’s Place, Bronx Community Pride and cutting funds by 2/3 for Green Chimneys’ LGBTQ program, DYCD has jeopardized the futures of thousands of homeless LGBTQ youth who will be forced to live on the streets for months while waiting for beds at mainstream shelters, where they face harassment and violence due to their sexual orientation. DYCD has further threatened the wellbeing of LGBTQ clients who depend upon LGBTQ homeless youth organizations for food, clothing, medical care and case management services.

There are currently only 75 beds citywide for LGBTQ homeless youth, though over 35% of the city’s homeless youth identify as LGBTQ. The Metropolitan Community Church of New York operates Sylvia’s Place, which houses 26 LGBTQ youth beds and serves over 1000 youth every year. The city’s unwillingness to acknowledge the critical work of Sylvia’s Place and other LGBTQ -specific youth shelters will lead to a collapse in the shelter system citywide, making it impossible for homeless youth of all orientations to secure the housing and services they need.

If DYCD gets away with this, then the 75 beds that New York City currently has for LGBTQ youth could be cut to less than 49 BEDS for LGBTQ youth in a city where, according to a New York City Council-funded survey, over1000 LGBTQ youth are homeless every night.

Tell DYCD and your legislators that the futures of homeless LGBTQ youth matter!

MCCNY Homeless Youth Services, Green Chimneys, Bronx Community Pride and many more depended on these funds and will be losing ground if DYCD does not consider their proposals now!

Please direct your comments to:

Council Member Lewis A. Fidler
718-241-9330
LFidler@council.nyc.gov

Council Member Alan J. Gerson
212-788-7722

Council Member Gale Brewer
212-873-0282*

Updates:
* The correct person to speak with is Shula Warren. Her direct phone is 212-788-6975. Her email is shula(dot)warren(at)council (dot) nyc (dot) gov.

Attack at GLBT Youth Shelter in NYC

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

Just sharing the news for those who haven’t heard. Not too surprising really; something like this had to happen somewhere eventually. Thankfully, it doesn’t sound like anyone was badly hurt. Things could have been much much worse. None-the-less, my best wishes go out to Father Braxton and the youth at the shelter. If you feel like making a difference, I’m sure that Carmen’s Place could any donation you may be able to spare.

Violence Comes Uncomfortably Close to a Gay Shelter
By COLIN MOYNIHAN
Published: July 14, 2008

Making a difference, even in death

Monday, June 23rd, 2008

Couple bequeaths fund to help gay youth, fight AIDS
By DON CUDDY
Standard-Times staff writer
June 09, 2008 6:00 AM

I have the utmost respect for these gentlemen and their effort to make a difference even after they themselves have passed on. Personally, I hope to make a difference in the world before I die, but if I can’t or maybe even if I can, I want to do something similar to this.

Our True Colors

Sunday, March 16th, 2008

Yesterday, I attended Our True Colors - a LGBT youth conference for the state of Connecticut. Overall, I enjoyed the conference, but there were a few things that didn’t work out quite as expected. For one thing, my black North Face jacket went missing part way though the day. I’m a little irritated by that, but well what can I do about it now?

I left Stamford at about 6:30 am, stopped at work to pick up my camera, the drove up to University of Connecticut (UConn) where the conference was being held. After checking in, I went to part of the opening keynote before heading out to prepare for my first workshop of the day.

My first workshop was entitled “Exploiting Technology to Further Your Mission.” In retrospect, that was probably a bit abstract for the age of the people attending. (Most high school, with a few college students, and middle schoolers thrown in) Partly as a result of that, and partly due to the day’s low attendance (see below), I only had one person attend. Worse, he was not involved in any form of LGBT organizing or activism; he’d been drug along by a friend. We ended up talking about the uses of technology in Physics since that was his major. Overall, it was a complete bust.

My second workshop (title “Practical Lessons in Managing Your Volunteer Base”) was more of a success. While I only had one person show up again, this time the attendee was there because they were actually interested and needed advice. I ran through my slides, but since it was just the two of us it really became a one-on-one counseling session. That type of one-on-one interaction is what I enjoy the most about teaching, so for me the workshop was more than worthwhile.

As I mentioned before, Saturday attendance was way down. Apparently, most of the high school students come up on Friday when they can come on school field trips. Also, the weather was bad (rain + some snow) so a lot of people stayed home.

After my workshops were over, I went to a workshop on over the counter drug use by LGBT youth. It was absolutely fascinating. This was a topic I knew next to nothing about, so I learned a lot from the workshop. I’ll probably be putting up a separate post about that workshop.

After the last workshop, I volunteered to help with the cleanup. I worked with one other volunteer to take boxes from the conference and load them onto the truck to go back to the True Colors office. Once we got mostly through that, we broke for a few minutes to eat a quick dinner. (It was during dinner that my jacket walked off.) After dinner & hunting for my jacket a bit, I got recruited to follow the truck back to Manchester and bring the driver (Brian - the volunteer I’d worked with earlier) back to the conference. All told, that trip took about an hour.

After getting back, I spent a little more time hunting for my jacket and then checked out with the volunteer table to head home. (It was about 9:30 pm by then.) On the way out, I stopped to talk with a guy nicknamed “Dragon”. Turned out we had a lot in common - including our shared difficulties in social situations - so I was able to give him some hopefully useful advice. We ended up talking for about 30 minutes before I took off to head home. I got home around midnight, talked to Matt and some friends from work who were over, then crashed.

Kern’s Gay Son

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

For those who haven’t heard yet, Sally Kern - an Oklahoma Legislator - made some extremely homophobic comments at a political rally. (Article, Video) So what right? Might be worth a little outrage/annoyance, but usually it wouldn’t warrant a post here. What makes this a lot more interesting is the ongoing speculation that one of Kern’s sons is gay.

The speculation is that Kern’s son Jessie is gay and that his parents essentially disinherited him because of it. While nothing new - Alan Keyes anyone? - it always make me think whenever I hear something like this. I really feel that people are missing an important point here - if this is true than that kid probably went through *hell* growing up. For some reason, that never seems to actually get mentioned. It also makes me want to ask some tough questions of Kern. What the hell happened to her “family values”?

For the record, I have no respect what-so-ever for a parent who abandons their child - over religion, politics, or whatever. No matter what they may have done, they’re still your kid for God’s sake. I just don’t get that.

Conference? What conference?

Monday, February 25th, 2008

I just got back from the MBLGTACC 2008 conference. I was there for four days, but the time went by so fast it felt more like four hours. I spent a lot of time volunteering at the conference, and the rest spending as much time with as many friends as possible. Being back in Champaign reminded me just how much a part of me wishes I hadn’t left.

The end result of everything else I was doing was that I only attended two workshops and one of the three keynotes. Probably my lowest attendance record ever for a conference. Well, that happens when you spend all your time running the thing. (For once, I was not in charge. Yeah!)

And on that note, let me offer my congratulations to the conference committee and in particular the co-chairs. Nicely done guys! Now go get some sleep. You all need it. :)

Oh, the irony!

Saturday, February 16th, 2008

The study below reveals the (not surprising) fact that social networking sites such as Facebook or MySpace are actually one of the safer forms of online interaction for kids. Er, duh? I’m glad to see the research is now available to support what I’ve long suspected.
Let’s just see how the talking “news” heads deal with this. :) Somehow, I suspect they’ll find a way to twist this too. They always do.

Kids safer in social networks than chat rooms
By Darren Osborne
February 06, 2008 03:26pm

Another gay kid killed by Iran

Sunday, December 9th, 2007

Sometimes I think we really should bomb these f*ckers back into the stone age. No wait, they never left!

As you can no doubt tell, I’m slightly pissed off about this.


Iran Executes 21 Year Old Accused Of Gay Sex When He Was 13

by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff
Posted: December 5, 2007 - 3:00 pm ET

State Murder for Sex at 13 in Iran
The Courageous Iranian Journalist Who Covered the Trial Speaks to Gay City News.
By: DOUG IRELAND, Gay City News
12/06/2007

Out (or Not) In the Child Welfare System: Foster Care, Adoptions, & Orphanages

Friday, October 12th, 2007

Thought I might as well post this here. This is the write up for a workshop I will hopefully be presenting at Creating Change in Feb. 08. I just got this submitted today.

Title: Out (or Not) In the Child Welfare System: Foster Care, Adoptions, & Orphanages
Level: all levels
Format: 90-minute workshop (basic info followed by discussion)
Facilitators: Mandy Carter, Philip Reames

Blurb:
LGBTQ individuals have multiple positions within the child welfare system, each with its own set of challenges. This workshop is intended to illuminate the child welfare system as it currently exists (for professionals and new comers alike) and start a discussion on changing it for the better. Come and join us for a discussion of the ways the child welfare system effects us, and the ways we can effect it.

Full Description:
LGBTQ individuals have multiple positions within the child welfare system. Many are youth, going through the system without a place to turn or a safe adult to talk to. Others are prospective foster and adoptive parents, sometimes desperately fighting for themselves and their prospective children. And let us not forget the very social workers and staffers who run the system, many of whom are also LGBTQ.

Each group faces its own set of challenges, some similar, some very different. This workshop is intended to illuminate the child welfare system as it currently exists (for professionals and new comers alike) and start a discussion on changing it for the better.

The facilitators will open the discussion by sharing basic facts & figures such as percentages and numbers of LGBTQ youth in the child welfare system, and then presenting personal stories collected from members of all three groups. Following this introduction, the audience will be invited to share their own perspectives and experiences for the benefit of the group as a whole. Issues up for discussion will include:
- Existing organizations which explicitly serve LGBTQ individuals
- Tips and tactics for surviving as a LGBTQ youth within the system
- The relationship between homelessness and foster care for LGBTQ youth
- Providing services to LGBT youth in non-affirming localities
- Where to get information and assistance as a LGBT foster or adoptive parent
- Working inside the system as an activist (out or not)

Note: This workshop is a companion to the one presented by Pauline Park on inter-country adoption. The two are intended to be presented together, but can be presented separately if need be.