Archive for the ‘Youth’ Category

Attack at GLBT Youth Shelter in NYC

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

Just sharing the news for those who haven’t heard. Not too surprising really; something like this had to happen somewhere eventually. Thankfully, it doesn’t sound like anyone was badly hurt. Things could have been much much worse. None-the-less, my best wishes go out to Father Braxton and the youth at the shelter. If you feel like making a difference, I’m sure that Carmen’s Place could any donation you may be able to spare.

Violence Comes Uncomfortably Close to a Gay Shelter
By COLIN MOYNIHAN
Published: July 14, 2008

Making a difference, even in death

Monday, June 23rd, 2008

Couple bequeaths fund to help gay youth, fight AIDS
By DON CUDDY
Standard-Times staff writer
June 09, 2008 6:00 AM

I have the utmost respect for these gentlemen and their effort to make a difference even after they themselves have passed on. Personally, I hope to make a difference in the world before I die, but if I can’t or maybe even if I can, I want to do something similar to this.

Our True Colors

Sunday, March 16th, 2008

Yesterday, I attended Our True Colors - a LGBT youth conference for the state of Connecticut. Overall, I enjoyed the conference, but there were a few things that didn’t work out quite as expected. For one thing, my black North Face jacket went missing part way though the day. I’m a little irritated by that, but well what can I do about it now?

I left Stamford at about 6:30 am, stopped at work to pick up my camera, the drove up to University of Connecticut (UConn) where the conference was being held. After checking in, I went to part of the opening keynote before heading out to prepare for my first workshop of the day.

My first workshop was entitled “Exploiting Technology to Further Your Mission.” In retrospect, that was probably a bit abstract for the age of the people attending. (Most high school, with a few college students, and middle schoolers thrown in) Partly as a result of that, and partly due to the day’s low attendance (see below), I only had one person attend. Worse, he was not involved in any form of LGBT organizing or activism; he’d been drug along by a friend. We ended up talking about the uses of technology in Physics since that was his major. Overall, it was a complete bust.

My second workshop (title “Practical Lessons in Managing Your Volunteer Base”) was more of a success. While I only had one person show up again, this time the attendee was there because they were actually interested and needed advice. I ran through my slides, but since it was just the two of us it really became a one-on-one counseling session. That type of one-on-one interaction is what I enjoy the most about teaching, so for me the workshop was more than worthwhile.

As I mentioned before, Saturday attendance was way down. Apparently, most of the high school students come up on Friday when they can come on school field trips. Also, the weather was bad (rain + some snow) so a lot of people stayed home.

After my workshops were over, I went to a workshop on over the counter drug use by LGBT youth. It was absolutely fascinating. This was a topic I knew next to nothing about, so I learned a lot from the workshop. I’ll probably be putting up a separate post about that workshop.

After the last workshop, I volunteered to help with the cleanup. I worked with one other volunteer to take boxes from the conference and load them onto the truck to go back to the True Colors office. Once we got mostly through that, we broke for a few minutes to eat a quick dinner. (It was during dinner that my jacket walked off.) After dinner & hunting for my jacket a bit, I got recruited to follow the truck back to Manchester and bring the driver (Brian - the volunteer I’d worked with earlier) back to the conference. All told, that trip took about an hour.

After getting back, I spent a little more time hunting for my jacket and then checked out with the volunteer table to head home. (It was about 9:30 pm by then.) On the way out, I stopped to talk with a guy nicknamed “Dragon”. Turned out we had a lot in common - including our shared difficulties in social situations - so I was able to give him some hopefully useful advice. We ended up talking for about 30 minutes before I took off to head home. I got home around midnight, talked to Matt and some friends from work who were over, then crashed.

Kern’s Gay Son

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

For those who haven’t heard yet, Sally Kern - an Oklahoma Legislator - made some extremely homophobic comments at a political rally. (Article, Video) So what right? Might be worth a little outrage/annoyance, but usually it wouldn’t warrant a post here. What makes this a lot more interesting is the ongoing speculation that one of Kern’s sons is gay.

The speculation is that Kern’s son Jessie is gay and that his parents essentially disinherited him because of it. While nothing new - Alan Keyes anyone? - it always make me think whenever I hear something like this. I really feel that people are missing an important point here - if this is true than that kid probably went through *hell* growing up. For some reason, that never seems to actually get mentioned. It also makes me want to ask some tough questions of Kern. What the hell happened to her “family values”?

For the record, I have no respect what-so-ever for a parent who abandons their child - over religion, politics, or whatever. No matter what they may have done, they’re still your kid for God’s sake. I just don’t get that.

Conference? What conference?

Monday, February 25th, 2008

I just got back from the MBLGTACC 2008 conference. I was there for four days, but the time went by so fast it felt more like four hours. I spent a lot of time volunteering at the conference, and the rest spending as much time with as many friends as possible. Being back in Champaign reminded me just how much a part of me wishes I hadn’t left.

The end result of everything else I was doing was that I only attended two workshops and one of the three keynotes. Probably my lowest attendance record ever for a conference. Well, that happens when you spend all your time running the thing. (For once, I was not in charge. Yeah!)

And on that note, let me offer my congratulations to the conference committee and in particular the co-chairs. Nicely done guys! Now go get some sleep. You all need it. :)

Oh, the irony!

Saturday, February 16th, 2008

The study below reveals the (not surprising) fact that social networking sites such as Facebook or MySpace are actually one of the safer forms of online interaction for kids. Er, duh? I’m glad to see the research is now available to support what I’ve long suspected.
Let’s just see how the talking “news” heads deal with this. :) Somehow, I suspect they’ll find a way to twist this too. They always do.

Kids safer in social networks than chat rooms
By Darren Osborne
February 06, 2008 03:26pm

Another gay kid killed by Iran

Sunday, December 9th, 2007

Sometimes I think we really should bomb these f*ckers back into the stone age. No wait, they never left!

As you can no doubt tell, I’m slightly pissed off about this.


Iran Executes 21 Year Old Accused Of Gay Sex When He Was 13

by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff
Posted: December 5, 2007 - 3:00 pm ET

State Murder for Sex at 13 in Iran
The Courageous Iranian Journalist Who Covered the Trial Speaks to Gay City News.
By: DOUG IRELAND, Gay City News
12/06/2007

Philly BSA Situation: Nothing has changed

Saturday, November 24th, 2007

Some of you may remember my earlier post regarding the conflict between the Philly chapter of the boy scouts and the city government over the BSA’s anti-gay discrimination policy. I’ve been wondering what had happened with that. Sadly to say, the answer seems to be “not much”. Check out the article below.


Philadelphia Gives Boy Scouts Ultimatum

City Solicitor Tells Branch to Renounce Its Ban on Gays or Lose Rent Subsidy

By Dafna Linzer, Washington Post Staff Writer
Monday, November 19, 2007; Page A03

Out (or Not) In the Child Welfare System: Foster Care, Adoptions, & Orphanages

Friday, October 12th, 2007

Thought I might as well post this here. This is the write up for a workshop I will hopefully be presenting at Creating Change in Feb. 08. I just got this submitted today.

Title: Out (or Not) In the Child Welfare System: Foster Care, Adoptions, & Orphanages
Level: all levels
Format: 90-minute workshop (basic info followed by discussion)
Facilitators: Mandy Carter, Philip Reames

Blurb:
LGBTQ individuals have multiple positions within the child welfare system, each with its own set of challenges. This workshop is intended to illuminate the child welfare system as it currently exists (for professionals and new comers alike) and start a discussion on changing it for the better. Come and join us for a discussion of the ways the child welfare system effects us, and the ways we can effect it.

Full Description:
LGBTQ individuals have multiple positions within the child welfare system. Many are youth, going through the system without a place to turn or a safe adult to talk to. Others are prospective foster and adoptive parents, sometimes desperately fighting for themselves and their prospective children. And let us not forget the very social workers and staffers who run the system, many of whom are also LGBTQ.

Each group faces its own set of challenges, some similar, some very different. This workshop is intended to illuminate the child welfare system as it currently exists (for professionals and new comers alike) and start a discussion on changing it for the better.

The facilitators will open the discussion by sharing basic facts & figures such as percentages and numbers of LGBTQ youth in the child welfare system, and then presenting personal stories collected from members of all three groups. Following this introduction, the audience will be invited to share their own perspectives and experiences for the benefit of the group as a whole. Issues up for discussion will include:
- Existing organizations which explicitly serve LGBTQ individuals
- Tips and tactics for surviving as a LGBTQ youth within the system
- The relationship between homelessness and foster care for LGBTQ youth
- Providing services to LGBT youth in non-affirming localities
- Where to get information and assistance as a LGBT foster or adoptive parent
- Working inside the system as an activist (out or not)

Note: This workshop is a companion to the one presented by Pauline Park on inter-country adoption. The two are intended to be presented together, but can be presented separately if need be.

Queer Youth Fund

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

Just saw this in an email on one of this lists I’m on. I’ve never heard of them before, but I’m glad to see there is an LGBT youth specific charitable fund out there. I’m definitely going to keep them in mind for later. Figured I’d post it here in case its useful to anyone else.

Queer Youth Fund Accepting Letters of Intent

Deadline: October 2, 2007 (Letters of Intent)

The Queer Youth Fund is a donor-initiated grantmaking program
housed at the Liberty Hill Foundation ( http://libertyhill.org/ ).
A group of committed donors developed the fund to provide large
multiyear grants to groups that address the multitude of issues
queer youth face as they acknowledge and celebrate their sexual-
ity and identity, and seek to become empowered leaders in their
communities.

The Queer Youth Fund makes multiyear grants to grassroots, local,
state, and national nonprofit organizations working to improve
the quality of life among gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender,
queer, and questioning youth. The fund awards grants to inno-
vative and effective leadership development programs or organ-
izing projects that empower GLBTQQ youth to improve societal
conditions affecting GLBTQQ youth and that make a long-term
difference to their movement. For purposes of the program, youth
are defined as 25 years old or younger.

Up to four grants of up to $100,000 each, payable over three to
five years, will be made to different 501(c)(3) organizations (or
groups with fiscal sponsors) with specific work that matches the
fund’s guidelines. To be eligible, applicant organizations must
have a total budget for their youth work of $750,000 or less.

The Queer Youth Fund is now accepting Letters of Intent for its
2007-08 grant cycle. Guidelines and information on previous
grantees are available at the Liberty Hill Foundation Web site.

RFP Link:
http://fconline.foundationcenter.org/pnd/10008658/libertyhill