Archive for March, 2008

Combined interests: Gay + Mixed Martial Arts

Tuesday, March 25th, 2008

I found this article (through NGLTF’s SmartBrief of all places) and really enjoyed it. I’ve been taking Krav Maga - an Israeli style of self defense - for the last couple of months. Krav Maga focuses on practical moves and using the body’s natural instincts. Somewhat as a result, many of the mixed martial artists in UFC have at least some Krav background. As such, I’ve been getting more and more interested in UFC matches and have even watched a few on TV. Combine that with the gay angle and this article was pretty much tailor made for me.

Gladiator
By PAUL WACHTER, NY Times
March 23, 2008

Our True Colors

Sunday, March 16th, 2008

Yesterday, I attended Our True Colors - a LGBT youth conference for the state of Connecticut. Overall, I enjoyed the conference, but there were a few things that didn’t work out quite as expected. For one thing, my black North Face jacket went missing part way though the day. I’m a little irritated by that, but well what can I do about it now?

I left Stamford at about 6:30 am, stopped at work to pick up my camera, the drove up to University of Connecticut (UConn) where the conference was being held. After checking in, I went to part of the opening keynote before heading out to prepare for my first workshop of the day.

My first workshop was entitled “Exploiting Technology to Further Your Mission.” In retrospect, that was probably a bit abstract for the age of the people attending. (Most high school, with a few college students, and middle schoolers thrown in) Partly as a result of that, and partly due to the day’s low attendance (see below), I only had one person attend. Worse, he was not involved in any form of LGBT organizing or activism; he’d been drug along by a friend. We ended up talking about the uses of technology in Physics since that was his major. Overall, it was a complete bust.

My second workshop (title “Practical Lessons in Managing Your Volunteer Base”) was more of a success. While I only had one person show up again, this time the attendee was there because they were actually interested and needed advice. I ran through my slides, but since it was just the two of us it really became a one-on-one counseling session. That type of one-on-one interaction is what I enjoy the most about teaching, so for me the workshop was more than worthwhile.

As I mentioned before, Saturday attendance was way down. Apparently, most of the high school students come up on Friday when they can come on school field trips. Also, the weather was bad (rain + some snow) so a lot of people stayed home.

After my workshops were over, I went to a workshop on over the counter drug use by LGBT youth. It was absolutely fascinating. This was a topic I knew next to nothing about, so I learned a lot from the workshop. I’ll probably be putting up a separate post about that workshop.

After the last workshop, I volunteered to help with the cleanup. I worked with one other volunteer to take boxes from the conference and load them onto the truck to go back to the True Colors office. Once we got mostly through that, we broke for a few minutes to eat a quick dinner. (It was during dinner that my jacket walked off.) After dinner & hunting for my jacket a bit, I got recruited to follow the truck back to Manchester and bring the driver (Brian - the volunteer I’d worked with earlier) back to the conference. All told, that trip took about an hour.

After getting back, I spent a little more time hunting for my jacket and then checked out with the volunteer table to head home. (It was about 9:30 pm by then.) On the way out, I stopped to talk with a guy nicknamed “Dragon”. Turned out we had a lot in common - including our shared difficulties in social situations - so I was able to give him some hopefully useful advice. We ended up talking for about 30 minutes before I took off to head home. I got home around midnight, talked to Matt and some friends from work who were over, then crashed.

Kern’s Gay Son

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

For those who haven’t heard yet, Sally Kern - an Oklahoma Legislator - made some extremely homophobic comments at a political rally. (Article, Video) So what right? Might be worth a little outrage/annoyance, but usually it wouldn’t warrant a post here. What makes this a lot more interesting is the ongoing speculation that one of Kern’s sons is gay.

The speculation is that Kern’s son Jessie is gay and that his parents essentially disinherited him because of it. While nothing new - Alan Keyes anyone? - it always make me think whenever I hear something like this. I really feel that people are missing an important point here - if this is true than that kid probably went through *hell* growing up. For some reason, that never seems to actually get mentioned. It also makes me want to ask some tough questions of Kern. What the hell happened to her “family values”?

For the record, I have no respect what-so-ever for a parent who abandons their child - over religion, politics, or whatever. No matter what they may have done, they’re still your kid for God’s sake. I just don’t get that.

Two wonderful new Thunderbird extensions

Saturday, March 8th, 2008

In the last 24 hours or so, I’ve discovered two new Thunderbird extensions that I absolutely love. The first is the new Release Candidate for Lightning 0.8 (the calendar extension). (Warning: This is NOT a final release. I would not recommend using it with real data yet.) For years, I’ve been using Sunbird - the standalone calendar from Mozilla. (Lighting & Calendar are developed in parallel by the same team.) However, the integration features this time around might just be enough to get me to switch over. The task integration was a particular improvement over previous versions.

The other extension is Seek. It adds faceted search to Thunderbird. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought about how nice it would be to have something like this. (I actually had an extension I’d started myself to do this, but never got very far.) This will completely change how I sort, save, and search my archived mail. Beautiful. (This one is a full release, but is more features are forthcoming.)

Lightning 0.8 RC1: ftp://releases.mozilla.org/pub/mozilla.org/calendar/lightning/releases/0.8rc1/

Seek: http://simile.mit.edu/seek/